smashbits wrote:Your criticism though has definitely been less than constructive. What possibly offends me is that I interpret you as trying to be offensive. Your comment about humility, for example, how can anybody interpret that as constructive? How would you respond if I had said the very same thing to you? Are you trying to be offensive? Are you trying to win some sort of argument or are you authentically trying to help me?
It's a little bit of column A and a little bit of Column B. Mostly because you seem to REALLY think I have some hidden agenda to personally attack you and it's quite possibly the funniest thing to me. Being humble is a very good trait to have, keeps you grounded. No idea how that can be interpreted as non-constructive or offensive criticism. Nobody likes a big 'ol E-peen flip-flopping about all over the place y'know.
If you said anything in retaliation, I'd unlikely bat an eyelid. You'd probably have to personally know me pretty well and dig deep before you got a provoked response.
You said something about getting a lot of requests and a need to “prove you’re legit.” What do I need to prove this is legit?
That comment was very clearly a sarcastic example of what I COULD of said to you if I was being a dick, hence the quotation marks.
Let me be frank. My desire to respond initially started with the fact that firstly, This thread, the title, the contents, has been asked exactly hundreds of times. Almost 90% of them have been a complete waste of time, with the requester in question being incredibly vague with regards to details, usually money related.
I commented, not because I was trying to white-knight or warn anybody here, but because I had seen this so many times & get tired of it. Yeah I'll admit I was being slightly douchey for my own entertainment. But nothing you had said up until probably your most recent replies had convinced me to A) stop de-railing or B) that you were being honest about the offer. Only your persistence made it more clear that is not the case.
The humble comment is linked to this. You come riding in to the community, with your first post as a producer on Machinima, a community which no one knows or has heard of you before, with a near identical request. Some people respond, you reply with some slightly egotistical remarks that sounded pretty patronising, such as telling us that you've been in the videogames entertainment industry for two years and that any legal issues are too complicated for our fickle little brains to comprehend. That people were simply scared to of helped out in the past when you asked around. There is no trust to start with if you're being vague, even if that was not your intent.
Anyways, that's not really the crux of the point or my attitude. Some of the members gladly offered you help even before I chipped in; try DXRipper in which you responded:
I actually have no clue what most of that means
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If we want to talk about having some professional etiquette to entice potential modellers, that was not the way to reply. You could of at least googled it after the decent suggestion. I know Jman wasn't personally offended because he's a chill dude (sorry we sucked hard at Dota 2 last time :/), but I read that as just a really lazy reply.
He went on to recommend trying Facepunch as it is probably the more suitable community for your needs. I have no idea if you did, I'm assuming you didn't because you continued to post here. Which led to the post regarding you needing this work done within 24 hours and THEN, you publicly state a price.
If I was attempting to find some help on something, I'd make sure I did as much research into it beforehand, in regards to work required, hours needed, typical asking price, the best sites to look at etc etc. Anything and everything. Just so you don't step on your own toes and ask something silly. People are far more inclined to help if they feel confident you put in a little bit of effort yourself before enquiring, it's simple respect for a client really, to give you the impression you know what you're talking about & you know what is asked of them.
Look I get it probably wasn't on purpose, but it was an insanely sloppy way to drum up interest. If I genuinely was interested personally, I would of still been pretty skeptical. Just read back on your conduct in terms of the information you provided, and how you responded to each person. Half the time was trying to reassure them "no no, look it's fine, don't worry". The more you say that the harder it gets to believe. Why has no one decided to bite yet? On here or else where? And I really am being honest in my opinion here, I hope you can get your project done and find somebody, but, don't make a repeat of this sort of advertising if you don't already have the connections to help you out yet.
EDIT: You should of seriously opened your first post with that amount of honest information regarding the work in your most recent comment to everybody. None of this wonderful table tennis between me an you would of happened, but I'm glad it did <3