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your staus?

Married!
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3%
Engaged (congrats!)
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5%
I have a GF/BF :D
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Single - I like someone though...
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Single - dont mind
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Postby ScarT on Mon Apr 24, 2006 9:10 pm

Last friday I asked the girl I'm in love with to the... Well what I would call the "prom" in lack of better word :?... But anyway the "prom" is in October and she said it was to early... And I was like :wtf:... Oh well she wrote a reminder on my phone, that must be good :roll:
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Postby InternalRage on Mon Apr 24, 2006 9:14 pm

Prolly' the most reason I don't go after a girl I want the most is because of some idiots at school, just random people. I shouldn't, but It annoys me when people say stuff.

Thats why I'll wait till i'm older.

I have had one before though, more than one (not at once) but yeh, its also painful to break up. I had a real good relationship with a girl once, only ever cried over 1 girl. Only a bit though.

You know, tears in the eyes kinda crying. ;)
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Postby elshawn on Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:39 am

Ahh, the reminiscing; I once had a girl, and we we're getting real close and stuff, you know, sexually, and then when i asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend, she just laughed. yea, that sucked...
also, recently i've been talking with this girl alot, and we got together a couple times, but the thing is she has a boyfriend. argh, it sucks.
So pretty much at the moment I am just looking for someone to be with, not even really sexual, just someone who likes me for me, and chances are i will not find anyone in high school like that. :x
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Postby InternalRage on Tue Apr 25, 2006 2:34 pm

elshawn wrote:just someone who likes me for me, and chances are i will not find anyone in high school like that. :x


My schools double I guess. :x
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Postby Sorrow on Mon May 01, 2006 1:23 pm

You know what really bothers me?
most of the girls that actually have some common sense are ugly as hell, and everytime you find a decent mix of the two (common sense and cuteness for that matter), you learn they always get attracted to overly popular fucktards who basically do everything for attention, have like 3 GF's at a time... and just can't get it into their minds that those type of guys are plain well err... wrong.

either women want to be treated like dirt or are just plain shallow.

(ok that's not entirely true, but most of the time I encounter somebody who seems nice enough I 'dig a little deeper' (no pun intended), and find out that they're just as shallow as the rest of 'em)

anybody else experiencing the same things?
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Postby dragonfliet on Mon May 01, 2006 2:16 pm

Sorrow, most people are shallow, and I'm one of them. I have never dated an ugly girl and I never ever would. You know why? Because when you're good looking, you don't have to. The fact of the matter is: if you look good, you get to choose from good looking people. On top of that, if someone wants somenoe that's popular, it's not because the person is popular, it's because they're attracted to that kind of electric personality (ever stop to think why he's popular in the first place? Dingdingdign, people LIKE him!)

I understand that it sucks when someone you want doesn't want you back, but to run around accusing them of being shallow is a sad deflection. Why would you want someone who seems to have completely different values? Either you want to be like the popular jerk but lack the personality: in which case get up, head to the gym and start being exciting to be around. Or you seriously need to re-think what you want in a girl: find someone that you agree with.

Sorry to sound harsh and all, but it's the fact of the matter: you're attracted to who you're attracted to, and that should never, ever be held against you by some punk who thinks they're superior and thinks they know how things should be.

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Postby Sorrow on Mon May 01, 2006 2:24 pm

dragonfliet wrote:Sorrow, most people are shallow, and I'm one of them. I have never dated an ugly girl and I never ever would. You know why? Because when you're good looking, you don't have to. The fact of the matter is: if you look good, you get to choose from good looking people. On top of that, if someone wants somenoe that's popular, it's not because the person is popular, it's because they're attracted to that kind of electric personality (ever stop to think why he's popular in the first place? Dingdingdign, people LIKE him!)

I understand that it sucks when someone you want doesn't want you back, but to run around accusing them of being shallow is a sad deflection. Why would you want someone who seems to have completely different values? Either you want to be like the popular jerk but lack the personality: in which case get up, head to the gym and start being exciting to be around. Or you seriously need to re-think what you want in a girl: find someone that you agree with.

Sorry to sound harsh and all, but it's the fact of the matter: you're attracted to who you're attracted to, and that should never, ever be held against you by some punk who thinks they're superior and thinks they know how things should be.

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ok, I don't know in which country / city / whatever you live but basically in my hometown, you're popular when you belittle (sp?) people, act all cool while you're obviously just immature, and one argument you have there

'Either you want to be like the popular jerk but lack the personality: in which case get up, head to the gym and start being exciting to be around. Or you seriously need to re-think what you want in a girl: find someone that you agree with.'

I've heard that before, that sounds very very lame, because somehow 'cool people' seem to think everybody wants to be like them... yeah right... if that means holding up a smokescreen and pretending you're somebody who you're not... then i'll pass

let me say that i'm an ordinary guy, wouldn't exactly call myself ugly, but i'm not extremely attractive, I do whatever I like, I have a 'style' of my own and I don't conform to what society wants me to.
I think that's fair enough.
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Postby ScarT on Mon May 01, 2006 4:38 pm

Sorrow wrote:let me say that i'm an ordinary guy, wouldn't exactly call myself ugly, but i'm not extremely attractive, I do whatever I like, I have a 'style' of my own and I don't conform to what society wants me to.
I think that's fair enough.


That + I act the way I want to. Like sometime ago me and my friends decided to write something lame on my jacket, so we wrote "I'm a harvester" (sounds better in Danish! (Danish: Jeg er en mejetærsker!)). Now I've got that plus 4 of the girls I go to school with's names on my back :wink:

If anyone wanna see a picture, I'll get one lol :roll:
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Postby JakeParlay on Mon May 01, 2006 4:45 pm

I ONCE GOT BUSY IN A BURGER KING BATHROOM
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Postby matteh on Mon May 01, 2006 4:52 pm

Well I put that I have a GF, which should be true considering everything goes ok tonite...
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Postby Zyggy on Mon May 01, 2006 9:00 pm

Sorrow, I admire your individuality. I'm in a band so it's pretty easy to get girls. Only problem is they're all airheads and i'm into literature and culture.

Also, my (female) cousin gave me this advice on girls:

ok

well

girls are stupid.

thats the first thing you have to remember

they generally go for the asshole cus theyre dumb as fuck

so dont feel bad if she goes the other way

however

the best thing to do is act cool about it

and not show her you care


dunno if i completely agree, but she's a girl and that's what she said :D
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Postby ScarT on Mon May 01, 2006 9:05 pm

I shall gather information from the unknown enemy and report back to you all! (OH DEAR GOD THAT MADE MY LOOK LIKE A (ÜBER)GEEK! Now to watch some porn and for I ever wrote that lol)

EDIT: Oh my got, laughing out loud! I was about to go to sleep, but soon realized that last part was even more geekish :shock: I think I'll have to call some girls and say goodnight before I go to sleep, doesn't matter what time it is!
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Postby Sorrow on Mon May 01, 2006 9:13 pm

Zyggy wrote:Sorrow, I admire your individuality. I'm in a band so it's pretty easy to get girls. Only problem is they're all airheads and i'm into literature and culture.

Also, my (female) cousin gave me this advice on girls:

ok

well

girls are stupid.

thats the first thing you have to remember

they generally go for the asshole cus theyre dumb as fuck

so dont feel bad if she goes the other way

however

the best thing to do is act cool about it

and not show her you care


dunno if i completely agree, but she's a girl and that's what she said :D


hehe thanks for admiring the individuality, that's one of the first things I look at when meeting new people.
well about the airhead part, there's definitely alot of them nowadays... I haven't got the slightest idea why girls don't really show any interest whatsoever (atleast not where I come from) besides getting attention and looking good... (now that is shallow)
funny how being in a band makes you alot more popular :roll: but then again perhaps it is because people get to see you more often...

what kind of music do you play? btw?

funny how your own cousin admits girls are stupid (first hand experience? nah j/k)


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Postby RSX WHEEEEEE on Mon May 01, 2006 9:54 pm

ok

well

girls are stupid.

thats the first thing you have to remember

they generally go for the asshole cus theyre dumb as fuck

so dont feel bad if she goes the other way

however

the best thing to do is act cool about it

and not show her you care


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Postby PhilE on Mon May 01, 2006 10:02 pm

I have an old gf that I have sex with occasionaly. For the most part I'm single.
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