have you got someone?

[Ennui]

let me notify all you people who are whining about not having girlfriends

having one is nice, but so is not having one

i've got one, and she's distracting i can't map for shit right now

it's worth it tho

[dragonfliet]

ok

well

girls are stupid.

thats the first thing you have to remember

they generally go for the asshole cus theyre dumb as fuck

so dont feel bad if she goes the other way

however

the best thing to do is act cool about it

and not show her you care

Something better is to compare it to skiing. Nice guys are the bunny slope.They're boring. Of course It's easy, it's safe, you know you're not going to get hurt. This is where people go when they're afraid. Otherwise, the other guys are the Black diamond. They're exciting. They dangerous, and always exciting and you don't know what's going to happen next and yeah, you can get hurt.

The thing is: people like excitement. Guys like adrenaline rushes, girls like torrid romances (over generalization, true, but it works well enough). I would much rather risk life and limb for the shot of a great rush when skiing and girls would rather risk being hurt for the shot of a hot guy who thrills them.

And there are many, many, many fantastic girls out there. I'm practically surrounded with them lately. These are the ones that become doctors and lawyers and writers, and they're all over the freaking place.

The only thing, is to find someone who has the same interests as you.If you dismiss people who have different interests, because you find them shallow or vapid in some way, you're really no better. You play videogames for crying out loud, you visit a mapping forum. You're a nerd, god help them for enjoying their bodies and wanting attention. I never realized you were saving the world. The point isn't to knock anyone down, I'm simply saying: we all have our differences; don't dwell on it or judge someone because of it, just find someone else.

sorrow, I wasn't telling you that you need to put on a mask, I was saying that if you want a girl who's into popular guys, you either have become popular OR (this is important) move on, look more and find someone that's not into that. I kid you not, interesting girls are all over the freaking place, the problem is that most people don't really look. Lastly: Go to the gym. This goes for everyone. You don't want a fat chick, she doesn't want an out of shape guy. This isn't a trick to meet girls, this is just a common courtesy.

~Jason

[9f1062f623f9]

let me notify all you people who are whining about not having girlfriends

having one is nice, but so is not having one

So much truth has never been spoken on these boards.

[killerkallerant]

Have a girlfriend. Every now and again one of these girls pops up that you feel were created specifically for you, well good. Shes got a fab personality, great sense of humor, smoothest skin you've ever felt, smells sweet as roses, great kisser and a real cute trim body.

and my friend, where do you live, and were does she live. but im single right now, and looking. But there wasnt a choice for that so i didnt vote. had a gf 6 months ago

[otihome2469]

lol im actually interested in a girl as of now and i think shes hinting that shes interested in me but im too shy and nervous to do anything lol

[Dude But if ...]

I am single, but like this girl and she digs me, however she is going out with this guy and this guy happens to be a relativly good friend of mine. So i could never let the girl go for me and leave the guy. That would be kinda cruel as well as just plain uncool. So its a pretty sticky situation.

[killerkallerant]

I am single, but like this girl and she digs me, however she is going out with this guy and this guy happens to be a relativly good friend of mine. So i could never let the girl go for me and leave the guy. That would be kinda cruel as well as just plain uncool. So its a pretty sticky situation.

^ forget the guy, he is a reletive of a close freind? do you know him...if you dont, what does it matter. you know? and stuff



edit* ohh i didnt read correct...dont do it. never...you will lose friends..believe me i know.not really

[DarkMortar]

I think there are girls who like me, but won't confront me, and I'm too afraid to confront them either. Acutally I think they don't confront me because they are 'taken' and I will end up seeing them getting kissed n' stuff by their BF's. So generially I'm sad and too scared to talk, even to most people. Problem with me is that I'm not very skilled socially and have toruble thinking of what to talk about, and am terrible at looking people straight in the face. Usually I can talk pretty good and socially once I know the person for a while, same goes for teachers also. I just find most people un-interesting to my realm. Well I would be considered very uninteresting compared to most people because I don't like doing get-together activities, know what I mean? I like the active 'mind' per say. I'm no math matician, but I am well rounded in all academic subjects, and flow with imagination more than anything else. I think my closest call to getting girls is actually, I am not that bad at poetry. Just the problem is that I dont ENJOY writting poetry, but am actually pretty good at it, even though I never right it in free time because I find its boring because it doesnt give me a power trip of results like mapping or programming. I like POWER, I dont lie, and I like it more than anything. I like women mainly for their physical reasons. But usually I them as a person when they are the 'cute' types and are more interesting to talk to and understanding. Not those supid chicks, who will grow up to be suicidal failures. Nor do I like those silly emo girls who are crazy. I mean, some are cute, but I would like to have a GF whom is 'cute' and a 'cute' personaility, get what I mean?

[Sorrow]

Lastly: Go to the gym. This goes for everyone. You don't want a fat chick, she doesn't want an out of shape guy. This isn't a trick to meet girls, this is just a common courtesy.

Thank your macdonalds and fast food chains for that, thankfully holland isn't overcrowded with fat chicks and guys, (though fat chicks are becoming more frequent by the day... how do people end up like that anyway?)

I agree with you about the gym, I never said I couldn't get a GF and that I'm out of shape though (ok I'm not in PEAK physical condition I admit that... but rather just slim if that's the word) but what I'm trying to say is that most girls these days are plain dumb and act cheap lol, and the funny thing is, I'm actually attending the highest educational crap thing there is over here... I've got no idea how these girls end up in the same class as me but anyway maybe I'm just looking in the wrong place.

I live in a backwater city anyway

-Sorrow

[Woe Kitten]

Going to the gym is sad and depraved. Seriously. If you can't find people to do real excersize with then you don't deserve to have a good body. Go out and play some football, go swimming or play squash. But don't go straight from the machine your sat at now to another machine. Get out and enjoy the world.

There's my two cents on excersize.

As for women. Its better to be without one than with the wrong one. Those of you who are single should be happy your not with the wrong girl. If you had actually met the right girl you would be with her now/still be with her. Even if you think you met the right girl and you lost her then your just being self obsessed. If you meet the right girl you will make it work. If you don't then its because she was the wrong girl for you.

The only exception to this rule is if the person you love dies. Then if she really was the right girl then you will know she only wants for you to be happy and that should be some consolation.

In sumation:

Love what you have or you will never get what you want.

[loki.mcdamage]

Im engadege to be married on the 1st of may next year, we have our own flat, and im only 19.

[Sorrow]

...ok that usually doesn't end well

not trying to be a pessimist ofcourse

[Sorrow]

Going to the gym is sad and depraved. Seriously. If you can't find people to do real excersize with then you don't deserve to have a good body. Go out and play some football, go swimming or play squash. But don't go straight from the machine your sat at now to another machine. Get out and enjoy the world.

ok never looked at it that way, you're right I guess...
you make a funny statement though... 'from machine to machine...' I'm afraid that's all we'll do if society continues the way it does now.

[Woe Kitten]

ok never looked at it that way, you're right I guess...
you make a funny statement though... 'from machine to machine...' I'm afraid that's all we'll do if society continues the way it does now.

Not a difficult process to reverse. Just do sport, and bring your kids up to do the same. It seems pretty unlikely that sport will ever completely dissappear, so be happy

[Sorrow]

true but teach em something useful too and don't let the go all career wise, because that rarely turns out ok, and most of the people I know that totally focus on sport are morons in terms of moral and social stuff.

Sport can be alot of fun though, provided you do it with people you know and not for the sake of it (well that's the way I see it anyway)